What Is a Secret Pregnancy? When a Woman Does Not Know She Is Pregnant
Denial of pregnancy is a rare condition in which a woman herself does not realise she is pregnant — sometimes until labour begins. Dr Sadhna Singhal Vishnoi explains how it is possible, its causes, when it is usually discovered, why it can be risky, and what to do.
A secret pregnancy, or denial of pregnancy, is a condition in which a woman herself does not know that she is pregnant. This condition is rare, but not entirely impossible. In medical science it is considered a mix of psychological and biological factors.
How is it possible that a woman does not realise her own pregnancy?
For many people it is hard even to imagine that a woman could be pregnant and yet not know it for months — and sometimes right up to delivery. But this does happen, and there can be several reasons behind it — hormonal, psychological, physical and social.
Causes of a secret pregnancy:
Irregular periods: Women whose periods are already irregular may feel that missing a period is normal, and so they overlook the pregnancy.
Few pregnancy symptoms: Some women do not experience the common symptoms of pregnancy, such as nausea, vomiting, fatigue or a growing belly. Because of this, they have no suspicion.
Psychological denial: In some cases a woman is not able to mentally accept that she is pregnant, especially if the pregnancy is unwanted, or if there is social or family pressure.
Excess weight: When a woman is overweight, the growth of the belly or the movement of the baby may not be as clearly noticeable.
Reliance on contraception: Many women assume they cannot become pregnant because they are taking the contraceptive pill or have an IUD in place.
When is it discovered?
A secret pregnancy is sometimes discovered at the time of delivery, when labour pains suddenly begin. Or it may come to light during treatment for some other problem, such as abdominal pain or bleeding. Some women only sense the pregnancy in the sixth or seventh month, when the movements of the baby become stronger.
Is it dangerous?
Yes, it can be risky for both the mother and the baby. The pregnant woman does not take care of the pregnancy (such as folic acid, doctor check-ups, nutrition). There may be consumption of alcohol, cigarettes or medicines, which can affect the baby. Without timely antenatal check-ups, complications can increase. And a sudden, unexpected delivery can cause both mental and physical distress.
Solutions and suggestions:
If a woman is not getting her periods or feels changes in her body, she must get a test done. Even in the case of an unwanted pregnancy, proper medical advice should be taken, because deliberately ignoring it can be dangerous. Take care of your mental health. In a state of depression, denial or fear, seek counselling.
A secret pregnancy is a rare but serious condition in which a woman finds out about her pregnancy late, or only at the very end. It can be avoided through awareness, mental support and timely testing. If you notice changes in your body and have any doubt, do not delay — get a test done and see a doctor.
